We need the Lord's wisdom. It's that simple. "Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but deceitful are the kisses of an enemy." (Prov. 27:6) What a deep statement of wisdom. How you ask? We expect 'wounds' from our enemies and 'kisses' from our friends. But sometimes things aren't what they seem!
People are drawn to the flatterer, the one who is full of energy, always doing for others and speaks what we want to hear. The danger in this is all this flattery and business keeps one from noticing red flags. For the sake of a smile or a word one may turn a blind eye to any possibility of ulterior motives. In many cases, the truth comes out only after the damage has been done!
On the other hand, we are turned off by criticism or people questioning about the wisdom by which we are approaching things. One can offer their criticism with well-intentions or in kindness and some are still offended. "Do not reprove a scoffer, or he will hate you, reprove a wise man and he will love you." (Prov. 9:8) We need wisdom to recognize a scoffer! Our enemies may give us a slap on the cheek and we expect it but what about the one who is genuinely concerned for our spiritual well being trying to awaken us from a spiritual stupor or helping us not set ourselves up for disappointment? When we can use wisdom and not allow ourselves to be drawn in by our emotional state or attachements to determine the real value, we will say, "Thank you! I need that insight or help!"
I pray that God grant you true people in your life that will tell you what you really need to hear in truth. Not mean-spirited but truth. May God keep Judas from the doorsteps of your heart! It takes God's wisdom to know the difference!!!
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